It is clear that Adam Lanza's mother, as
well-intentioned as she was, smothered him to the point where she felt
she needed to accompany her 20 year old boy to the bathroom. She utterly
robbed her son of his own sense of control and self-worth.
It was during this time she sought to transfer her boy, who was
reportedly brilliant, to a different college. This case is strangely
reminiscent of British Brian Blackwell (2004) who slaughtered both his
parents, and then went on a nice date that evening. Brian's mother
smothered him to such a degree, that she bathed him through his teens,
totally demasculating and depersonalizing him. He was diagnosed with
Narcissistic Personality Disorder, making NPD the first diagnosis used
in a court of law to excuse the insanity of an unfeeling, unempathic.
chronically self-absorbed criminal. Adam Lanza was reported to feel a
lack of emotion or physical feeling to such a degree that college
football coaches sincerely warned team players to be careful falling on
him, since he was known not feel pain. It was told that if a fire hit
him, he wouldn't feel it.
This
smart Aspergers autistic boy had symptoms comorbid with Cluster A and B
personality disorders, Antisocial and Avoidant exacerbated by an Adjustment disorder. By the fact that he was in a public school system
indicates he was forced to adjust his disordered genetic disposition to a
norm, one that clearly traumatized him. The traumatic force of
adjustment and enculturation was most probably his mother's will, one
that he slaughtered. The root of this pervasive, unresolved, residual
trauma occurred when he was around the age of 5, which is the group of
kids he also slaughtered. During puberty, during the critical and potent
Oedipul mechanisms operating to assert his masculine aggression, he was
exposed to terrible, turbulent interactions between his parents, that
consequently resulted in a nasty divorce when he was 17. During, before
and after, his dominating mother exposed him to many guns she collected
as a hobby. His mother's "gun" hobby, he internalized
together with the rejection he experienced from his peers, the trauma
he underwent in integrating himself with society, and the volcanic
aggression he had toward his rejecting mother, for failing to value and
prize his differentness in first stages of life. The violence he
externalized is an expression of pervasive rejections he experienced
from the beginning of life coupled with exposure to acceptable violence
modeled by his parents and media. The event's painful externalization
reflects a painful internal fracture within his personality, rooted in a
desperate desire to annihilate his existential torture, hence an
externalization of violent annihilating mechanisms projected onto
children around the age his own development was traumatically arrested.
His core was surrounded by a core belief that he was absolutely
worthless rooted in the first stages of life, first precipitated by a mother failing to prize him, and
instill in him a firm foundation for the development of a solid and
healthy autonomous personal identity, and second, pervasively by people around him
affirming his self-loathing beliefs. Absolutely tragic on many levels.
Sha-Ron Kushnir
MS Clinical & Counseling Psych. (2013)
Capella U.
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